too BLESSED to be STRESSED...

according to Cambridge examiners' report 2009, this phrase (^ upwards) is one of the overly-used words..
in other words, that phrase is so-called banned from GP dictionary;p..

by the way, let's not talk about GP in my non-GP blog;p..

rather than talking about GP stuff everywhere, let me just ask you one question:
what are you doing when somebody you know is feeling down/stressed/anxious/etc?
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*you should be brainstrorming;p*
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know the answer already?

yeah true..
some normal people will think of: cheer him/her up, give'em a hug?maybe, encourage him/her, etc..

then lemme ask you another simple question?
what will you do if you are also feeling down? will you still do the same thing to him/her as when you are alright?

or do you expect somebody will bring you up and you will become ignorant to your surrounding till someone showing care for you?
*you can think about it now;p*

anyway, i just found that encouragement can act as a double-edge sword (oops, i'm using the banned words;p)..
at the time you cheer others up, you may find that you actually cheer yourself up as well..
when you give encouragement to them, you will begin to think,: "yeah i can encourage him/her, why cant i encourage myself?" the words you use to encourage others will also be applicable to yourself when you are also feeling down.. and hence both of you will feel better?hopefully..

yeah this is is just what i think lah. dont you think so?:p