too BLESSED to be STRESSED...

what you think about yourself may not be true reflecting what other people think about you..


never think that you are kind enough until others see the fruit of kindness in you..

never say "i can't" till you proceed into trying and you really fail thousands times..

never think that you are a great leader until others are satisfied with your attitude..

never think you are trustworthy till you trust yourself to not offend others and yourself..

never be too proud when others extol you, it may be just some words of affirmation.. not more than that..

never think you are successful in handling a great problem when you are not faithful in doing a small little thing..


humility is the key..


mirror..

that's the tool for you to be able to see yourself,
like others can see you

but, remember its feature:
right becomes left, left becomes right..

it does help you to see yourself,
but doesn't mean that when the things are right in your eyes, they are also right in others' views..

it allows you to see your reflection, the virtual you, not the real you..

be careful..


the first impression might be wrong, doesn't mean it's completely out..

one says:
Show me your friends and I can show you your future..

sounds so "paranormalic"..
but it's true..

show you friends, where you belong, whom you hang out with..
they depicted your future...


your future is your passion..
dare to dream, follow your passion..it may help..

don't force yourself to do what you don't like to do,
but sometimes you cannot choose..
when the thing you are reluctant to do, will help you to build a strong vital foundation..


just follow the rule, and you will be safe,
in playing the game of life..


some will fall on the way..

some will just stay there after falling, or fall even further..

some will blame the road that is too slippery..

but, the better ones will find what makes them falling, learn from that 'slippery road' and not fall again on the same spot, continue to rise up, and move on.. the journey has not reached its end yet.. it's not the journey to the down-slope road, but to a mountain top..


"God, help me to be better than yesterday.."
this is my prayer.. my daily prayer.. everyday..


go for an extra mile, or two miles..
more tears may flow,
but you will find more oasis in the desert...